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About Feeling invisible- YOU ARE NOT!

kat57 started this conversation

DO YOU FEEL INVISABLE?    Sometimes do you   feel like no one even knows your on the planet?   YOU are most likely having a hard time in life, you may feel like nobody sees you , because if they did, they one you know how bad things  are , that you are hurting in one way or the other.   Sometimes when we feel that way, we think that people should just know how things are...  BUT REALLY UNLESS YOU TELL PEOPLE SOMETMES THEY ARE JUST GOT UP IN THERE OWN WORLD, WITH THERE OWN ISSUES.....   ITS NOT THAT DON'T CARE, OK SOME DON'T CARE.BUT THERE ARE ALOT OF PEOPLE THAT DO, MORE THEN EVEN I REALIZED TILL RECENTLY.  I WAS FEELING DESPERATE AND LIKE ONCE AGAIN I WAS INVISABLE, THAT KNOW MATTER HOW MANY PEOPLE I TOLD ABOUT MY ISSUES, THAT SEEM, LIKE THEY WILL NEVER HAVE A ANSWER TOO,  MINE RIGHT NOW OUR DENTAL ISSUES AND  I HAVE FOUND I AM NOT ALONE IN THIS THERE ARE MANY OUT THERE, GOING THUR VERY SIMILULAR PROBLEMS WITH THERE TEETH OR LACK OF.   MY POINT IS  I WASN'T ALONE,     I WAS NOT IN VISIABLE !!!!      YOU COULD HAVE LOST EVERYTHING YOU OWN DO TO A WEATHER DISASTER, A BREAK IN A MARRAIGE, ANY NUMBER OF REASONS, AND ALL OF SUDDEN YOU , FEEL LIKE YOU DON'T COUNT ANYMORE, BECAUSE YOU HAVN'T GOT THE CAR, THE HOUSE, AND THE EVER SO FAITHFUL DOG.  

WE    LIVE CAN OVER WHELM US  WITH FEELINGS,  OF ELATION, SADNESS,   OR BEING ANGRY AND DEPRESSED ,  then the  that happens is  after a while OUR WHOLE LIFE SEEMS TO BE DROWNING IN  ONE FEELING OR ANOTHER, THE SAD PART ITS USAUALLY THE NEGITIVE  FEELINGS  that seem to engulf us.  Life as taken a turn we didn't expect, there are WEATHER DISASTERS, DIVORSES, LOSS OF THE BEST JOB WE EVER HAD, the list goes on  & on.. Because of these things I and a lot of people really start to believe no one really cares out there...I WAS WRONG.   THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE WHO CARE, AS  I MENTIONENED EARLIER,     I just want to say that are people out in the world do  care about you, what you are going thru,  and what your   needs are. Now not all, maybe not even a lot, but they are out there.   You might be thinking, but I have nothing, no home like the "Smiths" , no white picket fence around my  house, and where is  that,  washer and dryer that's suppose to be in the garage..ALOT OF US GREW UP WITH THAT MENTALITY, SOMETHINGS WRONG WITH YOU,   IF YOUR NOT  MARRIED, HAVE CHILDREN , THE CUTE HOUSE, WITH THE EVER SO FAITHFULY DOG, AGAIN THE WHITE PICKET FENCE, THE WASHER/DRYER IN THE GARAGE.  AND AT LEAST ONE CAR OUT FRONT ALL SHINED UP...  Well that's all fine and nice and it happens for some, but I don't  that any one of us,   are suppose to have all those things, and if you don't have them,   certainly don't start beating your self up over it. Some people in life never own a home, have a apt..  some the streets are there home... some cant have children, dont want to bring children into a  hard world.  So sometimes its  just reality is not the same  for all of is, that can feel like a bummer..that's just the way life can be..  The good  part,  there are people that actually like to help, in what ever way that is feasible for  them,  recently like I mention earlier, I had came to that point of desperation again,  that I had pretty much, learn much pain, and gain,  learned to accept things as they were and give it my best,  and to TRY TO LOOK AT THE GLASS OF WATER HALF FULL INSTEAD  OF HALF EMPTY,  but because the hard times, I that I was now facing, as I briefly touched  on.   I was feeling like no one cared if I was sick because I cant get help   YET, I have to put yet, because for me that is a hope word,  well in my desperation, because of feeling sick and some other fears that go along with my problem. this not about that, so I wont go into any detail on it..  but because I was starting to get that invisible feeling again, which means Im starting to feel hopeless again,  I was  getting a bit freaked out, did want to follow that road,  it leads no where.. so I am fortunate to have a computer my one and I mean one thing I have allowed my self to keep,, for sanity reasons... but if you can got  use one, at a library,  down the street from where I live, honest to God, there is a gas station/store that has 2 computers they let customers use....     Anyway  I was on  mine at home feeling a bit nuts, and kept typing up in that little corner where I go often, on my computer to find things,  and  just randomly was typing help help help... something to that effect, I did say I was feeling a bit nuts.... and  well I ended up on a site,  that as far as Im concerned a gift from above,  it doesn't matter if you believe in a above or a God, but I do, and it was a answered prayer for my insanity at my hopeless situation.... took to this place/site.    where people actually.. are you sitting down???    PEOPLE ACTUALLY DO HELP EACH OTHER,  no strings attached..  Now I still have my teeth or lack of the money or the oral surgeon...... or any of that yet, but I think I found that site on June 27th or 29th. My life as take a turn, totally around,  haven't got  a new house, wasn't looking for one, you may be,  or any # of things that people are in need of that find this place how ever that is..I FOUND IM  VISIB LE,  I FOUND PEOPLE WANTING TO HELP  OTHERS,  AND YOU WHAT ALOT OF THESE PEOPLE THAT ARE HELPLING, ARE IN DIRE NEED THEMSELVES AS  AM I.....  WELL THATS WHAT CAME TO SAY,  YOU ARE NOT INVISIABLE!!!!  NEVER HAVE , NEVER WILL BE!!   AND THERE IS  HOPE, BUT PEOPLE CAN'T ALWAYS READ OUR MINDS, SOME TRY,  YOU ALMOST START BECOMING VISABLE, AS YOU REACH OUT TO SOMEONE ELSE,  WITH A CYBER HUG, A PRAYER, MAYBE YOU HAVE SOME INFO  THAT MIGHT HELP SOMEONE WITH THERE MESS/CRISIS..    I BELIEVE WITH ALL OF MY HEART, THAT ONE DAY,  SOME ONE IS GOING TO HAVE THE ANSWERES  I SO DESPERATELY NEEED, OR A ORAL SURGEON WILL STUMBLE ACROSS THIS WONERFUL PLACE i HAVE FOUND AND OFFER HELP..

WHAT EVER IT IS, THAT YOU ARE HAVING A HARD TIME WITH, FOOD, CLOTHING, HOUSING, MEDICAL, MARRIGE TROUBLE,  YOU WILL SURELY FIND SOMEONE TO HELP YOU WITH AT LEAST SOME ENCOURAGEING THOUGHTS, AND MAYBE EVEN THE  ANSWER YOU NEED...

THANKS FOR YOU TIME....MAKE  IT THE BEST  DAY YOU POSSIBLY CAN.

REMEMBER THE GLASS OF WATER IS HALF FULL NOT HALF EMPTY!!!

:) :):)   A SMILE FROM ME TO YOU,   WE ARE OUT HER THOSE WHO CARE!!

KAT

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World_Peace_Everywhere

THANK YOU KAT,

 I'M A NEWBIE AND AS I TRY TO READ SOME OF THE STUFF WITHOUT CRYING ,YES I SEE MANY CARING, LOVING PEOPLE HERE.

I'M SO BLESS TO HAVE FOUND THIS PLACE TO CRY OUT MY PAIN AND TRY TO HELP OTHERS ..IT MAY/MAY NOT HELP ME FROM MY OWN PROBLEMS.

WE  ALL ARE IN THE SAME  LIFEBOAT TRYING TO FIND LAND AND STAY ABOVE THE WATER.

GOD BLESS

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forevernbluejeans

Amen to that Kat.  I felt the same way and when I came here I found myself worrying about others more than my own problems and wishing I had the means to help. I am still in dire straights with the car payment but atleast I know there are people out there who care and are praying for me. That's the best help I can get.  God Bless everyone here.

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